Monday, November 5, 2012

Post Sandy: Lessons Learned

drop off point at a local restaurant

I have a super snack to tell you about but I’ll hold off until Thursday because there are a few things about the whole NYC marathon fiasco still bugging me. The marathon is one of my favorite events, I love the stories, the challenge involved and of course New York is my home. The conspicuous generators and finish line are right across from the Foodtrainers offices and as I walked to work post Sandy the signage and set-up seemed so inappropriate. It all hit close to home. While, in the end, the marathon was cancelled there are important lessons to be learned.

Don’t Let Others Make Your Decisions
Before the city cancelled the race, I heard from clients slated to run the marathon.  Each of these runners, who trained long and hard, came to the conclusion that they would not run. Many said things like “it doesn’t feel right” and others hadn’t had power or had been relocated. Regardless of what the city said they were out. In the blogosphere and on Twitter and Facebook there was another sentiment. “The city decided the race was on and they must know what’s best.” Really? If the city thinks it’s ok to gas up thousands of buses while people wait in line for hours, they know best? If the city thinks it’s in good taste to start, as planned, on Staten Island blocks from where people lost everything, they know best? If the city thinks we should close roads and bridges for a road race, while trains are still out of order and traffic a mess, they know best? The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics tells me artificial sweeteners can be part of a healthy diet (don’t get me started).  I understand if you’re not seeing the news coverage or live in another country but if you were here in the city, as I am, you know better than that. In the end we all make our own decisions.

Hobbies are Hobbies
For many, the marathon is an incredible journey that takes commitment and dominates your life for months. There’s a part of marathon training that forces you to be selfish. I’ve trained for races that didn’t happen because of weather or injury and though initially upsetting, you realize that it’s just a race. For the vast majority of those scheduled to run Sunday running isn’t their profession. I tweeted that running for most people is a hobby and received some replies “no to me it’s so much more” and in all of these tweets “me” figured prominently. People didn't want to let go of their training and their mission to see what was happening around them. This advice is coming from a prodigy in petty but there are times when that’s all trumped. The New York Post said, “In the long haul you can always go for a run. You can’t always have your dignity and your life.”

Let Voice Be Heard
The mayor’s  “the race will go on” mentality was challenged by writers, politicians, police officers and publications who knew it wasn’t right and made their voices heard. I’m sure those who follow my tweets or FB posts may have been annoyed by my marathon-related messaging but it bothered me until the word “cancelled”. Whether it’s related to Sandy or Prop 37 good things can happen when you really believe in something and speak up. Some people, even some good friends, didn’t like that I suggested running was selfish or that resources, despite NYRR’s claims, were being diverted (and proof of that was Mary Wittenberg’s announcement that port-o-potty’s and generators would be redistributed to storm victims not that they were diverted). I hope that once you get over the personal disappointment you see the bigger picture, the sad picture that endures for so many in this area.

Lessons for Children
It shouldn’t take a national disaster for our children to learn some things but in our case it did. I wish I could tell you my boys were excited to make packages for firefighters, clean up the park where they play soccer or walk bundles over to donate. Initially they weren’t but they soon realized this is what you do. We’re also talking about what we can do for our planet and the weather we experienced. The thought of another Sandy should remind us that climate change is real, despite what many people have told us. We now know better.
What do you feel were the lessons learned from Sandy? Other than The Red Cross, any organizations helping out others should know about? Any thoughts on the marathon fiasco?
Some ideas:

22 comments:

  1. Beautifully written. My sister and I deferred our marathon entries on Wednesday. When I told friends and family all were supportive of my decision except my friends who were running. They knew how hard we had worked to get into this race but in the end it didn't matter. Once the mayor cancelled the race the ones that had planned on running said they were relieved the decision was made. I'm glad my sister and I made the right decision on our own.

    Yesterday was spent with 300 local and international runners helping victims clean up in the Oakwood Heights neighborhood of Staten Island. It's a day I'll never forget.

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  2. I was speechless when I heard the marathon was going on, and I don't even live close to NYC or Jersey. I just watched the news and could see the pain in everyone's eyes. It made no sense to me. OF course, I'm not a runner either....so...I have no right to judge, but still, I think it was a blessing that it was cancelled because look at all the GREAT things that came out of it!! So much food, money, clothes, basically just so much help from everyone involved with the marathon. I think it was amazing.

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  3. I still feel they really did the wrong thing by those coming from other countries. And I'm conflicted whether doing the right thing after such pressure and standing by the wrong thing rights the wrong... That part wasn't on the runners, really on NYRR.

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  4. Lydia first of all thank you for your comment, I give you credit for a difficult decision. You touched on something so important. Many runners were relieved when cancelled, I heard that mentioned. They were relieved because part of them knew wasn't right to be running or they were conflicted or because they felt wouldn't be the great time they had envisioned? I heard the gathering of runners on SI was amazing yesterday. I hope you have your marathon experience but most of all you were "tested" by this storm and it sounds your gut gave you the right answer or the right answer for you.

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  5. Lauren, you know my thoughts. I agree with all you have written. I had made my decision On Friday not to run before the official cancellation but I had planned to run before that. I do admit It was naivete. On Tuesday Bloomberg had said it would go on and I thought things may be okay by then and that the race may pull people together. By Thursday I knew I was wrong. There was no way we could have run a race through parts of the city that were still finding dead bodies. It was just a race.

    Most runners I know were torn from the start and just found it difficult to make that final decision. I just don't think they deserved to be vilified the way the were. And I am not referring to the people who objected to them running. I am referring to the nasty comments and threats that runners received, and the eggs that were pelted at the volunteers. Anyhow, those are my two cents.

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  6. Thanks Sam, I think we represent both sides of this thoughtfully and hopefully well. Respectfully, I don't buy into any of the "poor runners" thinking. I know you're not after sympathy but does it stink to train for a race and have it cancelled? Sure. Do I think that if you choose to run (or planned to run) you should expect flack/criticism and maybe anger? I do. There are times I've made "risky" moves with work or personally and I know deep down feathers may be ruffled. Worrying about how runners feel seems another distraction from the issues at hand. The "see what runners are doing" tweets about SI volunteering didn't sit well with me. We're all doing our part.Runners who went out to lend a hand don't deserve "extra credit" any more than ones who planned to run who felt compelled to talk about all their "year round" volunteer work. You can do lots of great things but if you make (and I'm not saying you) a selfish or worrisome one I'm going to call you on it as I hope people in my inner circle do for me. I wrote a silly post about hurricane weight gain before sandy hit and realized that was in poor taste and clarified the timing. It's complex but best we can each do is pull some lessons and move on/helping as we go.

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  7. I was definitely surprised to hear that the mayor planned to keep the race on schedule. I was very happy to hear he finally came to his senses and redirected valuable resources where they were needed.


    Sad that it divided your city. I am definitely glad that the worst is over.

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  8. I could not agree more with every single thing you wrote. Well said. I have donated to RedCross but I know that NYCares is also doing a lot.

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  9. good to know, I will look into NYCares. Hope you're getting around ok commute and all Cameo.

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  10. funny enough, though NYRR said this was a divided issue, once cancellation was in effect everyone agreed. The only thing I really feel divided the city was the irresponsible manner in which the event was handled leading up to the decision.

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  11. Totally agree! Great post.

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  12. Such a great post. It's easy to take the things you use everyday (heat/electricity) for granted & although it shouldn't take a huge storm to make you appreciate them, Sandy has definitely put into perspective how the things that we consider "necessities" are not always readily available to others

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  13. thanks Betty, no "petty Betty" sorry couldn't resist.

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  14. 100% hate to think of those suffering but if we have power/water and homes should thank our lucky stars.

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  15. Great post, Lauren. I feel the same way you do! Stay safe and I hope things get better soon for all those hurting.

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  16. I agree with you 100%. I said it from day 1, though it may be unpopular I believed cancelling was the only option. We are truly blessed here on the UWS, and it is our duty to help those who weren't as lucky.

    For other donation options:

    Chris Christie's NJ Fund: www.SandyNJReliefFund.org

    NYC Mayor's Fund: http://www.nyc.gov/html/fund/html/home/home.shtml

    Also- the JCC will be holding a blood drive this Sunday starting at 12:30PM

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  17. great info, thank you Einat, how is your project going?

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  18. wise words and hugs must have been hard going through it

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  19. When I heard at first that the marathon was going to go on in the spirit of community and bringing everyone together, it made some sense, but after hearing more about supplies being diverted, it didnt make sense at all, so galas it was cancelled. Speaking of prop 37...sad defeat, but I'm hopeful the good fight will continue!

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  20. yes I think prop 37 showed that this idea has legs.

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  21. much harder for some, we were lucky. thanks for hugs.

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