Wow, a year ago today the
Little Book of Thin was released. I was holed up in my apartment
reviewing and reviewing for a
Today
show segment. I wasn’t thinking resolutions. Yesterday I was pretty free and spent some time reading
resolution advice.
Time magazine suggested resolutions work better when you
“fork over cash”.
The Daily Good
referenced Seinfeld’s comedy writing and suggested picking something you can do
every day and to
focus on the doing versus the results (liked that). Anyway you
frame it though, the resolution success rates (under 10%) are almost as grim as
weight loss statistics. “Nobody keeps their resolutions, nobody loses weight long-term".
In 2014, I would’ve said those comments make me want to punch the doubters in
the face but since it’s the first day
of the year (and one of my personal
goals is
calmness) instead I’ll just say let’s prove those pessimists wrong.
What I know for sure in this department:
A year is a long time- start with a January commitment. I
know, I know you’re super motivated and want to put the "holiday heft" behind you right away but
commit for January and then reassess, even switch the goal.
Track- there is a whole movement called The Quantified
Self which can get a little carried away (sensors in our mattresses, really?)
but there is a value to tracking and gathering data about yourself. First,
activity trackers like my beloved Fitbit take little to no effort on your part
in order to track your activity or water drinking. And just the act of tracking
has a positive influence on your behavior. Psych people- isn’t this called the
Hawthorne Effect? This is provided you’re not too judgy with yourself.. Keeping a food journal
is another easy way to improve your behaviors. I think this is why people like
our Foodstalking program.
Cooking- if you really want to make changes with your health
and your weight, you need to cook. You don’t need to be a chef, you don’t need
lots of equipment but you need to scramble eggs or roast vegetables or just
take pride in buying the best ingredients you can. This connects you to your
food and let’s you control what goes in your body. I was watching a show last
night Booze Traveler (not very resolutiony but I’m obsessed) and the host joked
“this batch tastes better because I helped prepare it". Can you make your lunch
once a week? Or even cut vegetables up on Sunday for the week? In LBT I suggest making a green, a grain and
a main (protein) if you really want to set yourself up for the week.
Repetition works. My most successful clients have “anchor”
behaviors that they do over and over. These habits breed confidence and also
don’t require much deliberation. If we’re talking cooking, boil half a dozen
eggs or roast Brussels sprouts once a week. Maybe there are one or two
breakfasts you stick to like glue. And if you’re thinking that sounds boring? I
only suggested a January pledge, for Feb you can switch it up.
Whenever I gain some weight, I know that something is
"going on" in my life. It's always a reflection of something being
slightly off. So, no, I am never truly okay or happy when I'm heavier because
it's actually a reflection of the other "stuff" that's going on.
And two other notes
First, stay tuned for information in our
Monday newsletter on our
Whipping Week. One week, super strict, kinda fun. Many of us need a nutritional whipping.
And second, I’m starting to write the proposal for book #2.
I picked up Frank Lipman’s new book The New Health Rules (quick healthy snippets) and “Do Something You Love for at Least 10
Minutes a Day” stuck with me. I love writing…so we’ll see.
Happy New Year to you. There are times when I feel “should I
blog?” Or I feel guilty that I don’t give the blog as much attention as I used to but your
comments and feedback are so interesting to me.
What do you think
about resolutions? Are you a tracker? Do you cook? What do you love to do?